Be clear!

Life is beautiful but can be challenging.. some days more than others, with some people more than with others... But I believe every new situation that is put in front of me has its purpose... sometimes its a reward, sometimes its a lesson, sometimes its a test to see if I did learn the lesson last time or I'm going to make the same mistake again. I do not believe I am in this life to just go with the flow. I must know where I want to get to be able to know the road to take and what to avoid... so its important to be clear on my morals, integrity and beliefs, because only if my feelings are in harmony with those things will I feel peace in my heart and joy in my life. It takes a lot of strength to stay positive and joyful... you are forced to avoid certain situations, places and people and you have to be strong because you will be judged hard as selfish for doing that.... But in reality its the opposite... only if I am joyful and positive can I be of any good to anyone around me. But I do have to admit.... at this point in my life I am only interested in sharing my joy with those that are humble enough to express a need or those who show their love or appreciation to me... the rest I am strong enough to live without. Only my kids are an exception to this.. as they have unconditional love from me and forever. ~Fabiola~