PROTECT YOUR PERSONAL SPACE FROM NEGATIVE FEELINGS.

When the actions of a person in your surroundings makes you feel uncomfortable, weigh you down or annoy you, its because those actions are not in harmony with what you want or with your morals or values. Dont think you have to welcome th...em into your life. You have the power and the freedom to choose what you see, what you read, who you interact with.... reserve those spots in your life for people that say things that lift you up, that make you feel good, that encourage you by bringing out the best in you... Those people will feel right.. they will give you peace and clarity.... HAVE THE COURAGE TO BLOCK THE UNCOMFORTABLE ONES FROM YOUR LIFE AND BE WILLING TO PAY THE CONSEQUESCES OF DOING THAT!... I have been critiziced for avoiding some people and I can tell you that my life has so much more peace and love without them. Yes they talk behind my back but the only people that care about what they say... is people like them ;) .. who I probably dont want around me anyway. BE STRONG, KNOW WHAT YOU WANT, HAVE GOALS WITH CLEAR PRIORITIES, PRAY DAILY, AND NEVER COMPROMISE YOUR PEACE OF MIND AND HEART. ♥ ~FABIOLA~

 

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know what you want and focus

When you finally decide what you want, when you figure out what makes you happy, when you realize what is not in harmony with your feelings or values, when you finally have clear dreams and goals... when you finally are able to see that God is in all you do and wants the best for you... it is then that you see that light so clear and its soooo easy to follow it.... all the negative people, things and feelings disappear because your life is so full of light and Joy ♥ Fabiola~

be selfish if you must!

Dont go out of your way to do for others more than they are wiilling to do for themselves. Some people just like drama....dont feel selfish for staying away..feel smart! ~Fabiola~

the law of attraction

when you take the time to listen to negative or drama people... amazingly more of them come to you and suddenly you are surrounded by them lol... when you think positive.. and put a stop to their drama or just avoid them... they dont like you anymore and amazingly they dissapear

focus on the positive!

When I focus on the things that make me happy, on the people that love me, on the things that are abundant in my life, on everything that works out....when I do that..... Joy fills my life and all I can say is... THANK YOU GOD! Make it a point to only notice the positve things today and ignore and give NO thought or acknowledgement to any negative thought or uncomfortable people that crosses your path today... pretend they are not there. ~Faby~

  When the kids were little everything seemed so hard and overwhelming... I just wanted some alone time to rest and sleep but they had sooooo much energy and as soon as I got home from work, they wanted to play and be all over me. Now its har...d in a totally different way.. its me that wants to be all over them and know exactly where they are all the time ... and they are like birds just out of a cage...
Now I have the free time I wanted to sleep and rest but now I dont really want it LOL. but I guess in 25 years I will be saying how easy I had it when they were teens, so I am just going to enjoy every challenge and celebrate every accomplishment with them♥ As long as they stay good kids and are respectful to me, I am not going to complain ;)

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I Love Myself - a Self Love Affirmation by Louise Hay

I Love Myself - a Self Love Affirmation by Louise Hay : Pearls Of Wisdom

I Love Myself Affirmation
Louise Hay

Deep at the centre of my being,
there is an infinite well of love.

I now allow this love to flow to the surface.
It fills my heart, my body, my mind, my consciousness,
my very being, and radiates out from me in all directions
and returns to me mutliplied.
The more love I use and give, the more I have to give.
The supply is endless.
The use of love makes me feel good,
it is an expression of my inner joy.

I love myself;
therefore, I take loving care of my body.
I lovingly feed it nourishing foods and beverages,
I lovingly groom it and dress it, and my body lovingly
responds to me with vibrant health and energy.

I love myself; therefore provide for myself
a comfortable home, one that fills
all my needs and is a pleasure to be in.
I fill the rooms with the vibration of love
so that all who enter, myself included,
will feel this love and be nourished by it.

I love myself; therefore I work at a job I truly enjoy
doing, one that uses my creative talents and abilities,
working with and for people I love and who love me,
and earning a good income.

I love myself; therefore, I behave and think in a loving
way to all people for I know that that which I give out
returns to me multiplied.
I only attract loving people in my world,
for they are a mirror of what I am.

I love myself; therefore I forgive and totally release
the past and all past experiences and I am free.

I love myself; therefore I live totally in the now,
experiencing each moment as good and knowing that
my future is bright and joyous and secure,
for I am a beloved child of the Universe
and the Universe lovingly takes care of me
now and forever more.

And so it is.


by Louise Hay, from "You Can Heal Your Life"
Reprinted here with permission

You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay (The Movie)

Do I believe in the law of attraction?

Do I believe in the law of attraction? 

I didn't even know it existed or was taking place in my life until I started looking back to all I have done in my life... some things totally surprising to me.. I mean, God knew that is what I wanted and I would pray for it but could it be that me thinking about it and being so excited about it, helped?
I was 15 years old praying for my first boyfriend to come find me.. he was already 18 and engaged to some girl. I used to imagine how he would just show up one day and tell me, the wedding is off and I want you to be my girlfriend.  This is silly as I had never even kissed a boy before but yet I had imagine how it was all going to be.  One day out of the blue he shows up and guess what?...the wedding was off and we started dating... of course behind my parents back.  I was such a little girl and it took him a couple of months to realize that after him being with an older woman.. holding hands was not going to be enough so we decided that he needed to come back when I was older. My dad being a very strict father and a cop encouraged him to not even try anything else ;)  So I went on with my life knowing that he would be back when I was 18... and he did.  Of course by then I had a high school boyfriend who I adored but we still ended up getting back together because that is what I had planned and written on my diary, prayed on and deep in my heart wanted.  Later  I realized it was not what I wanted and we both moved on happily.

Tired of dating guys that bought me anything I wanted and had nice cars and motorcycles, I, one day said... God I just want a guy that  truly loves me and will love me for the rest of his life and I don't care about money or if he has a car or buys me things... I just want to be loved!  and so he came... no car, no money but loved me with all his heart. It was true love regardless of all the drama and it was sooooo hard to let go. We got married twice, divorced twice and had two boys.. we loved each other until the day he died even though we were not together as we were just not compatible in many things and we had decided to just be friends.

I then said.... I need to move back to the U.S. before my kids have to go to school. I refuse to cross the border every day to  take them to school.. and I want to buy because I refuse to pay rent.  Of course I had terrible credit, no money and I was a retail manager with low pay.  But I called a sign I saw on the street one day and the lady helped me fix my credit but I needed $4,000 dollars... now for someone that was making 15,000 a year that amount was unrealistic to save. specially a single mom that was getting no child support... but I ended up getting an insurance settlement for that amount that same month and there it was!!... I bought my first property in the US.
Later I started dating the principal of my son's school.  I thought he would be the perfect step father.. who better than someone that had chose to work with kids for a living.. right?  But there was a problem, after dating for a while he said... I can't marry someone that has no college degree or makes less money than me. I was heart broken... I think it was his way of encouraging me to go back to school, because he was all about education.... but I said... I tell you what... I wont go back to school but I will make more money than you... you will see! I remember his reaction to my statement... it was not of disbelief it was more like an encouraging smile.. he said.... well good, do it and we will get married and winked his eye.  I am assuming he figured he will eventually convince me to go back to school to make it happen.  But one day a Broker showed up at the Bath and Body works shop where I worked.. he was so impressed with my selling skills that he wanted me to go work with him selling Real Estate. 6 months after that I was selling Real Estate and 22 months after I was making double what my boyfriend was making.  And yes he did give me a ring and I decided not to get married after all.
Many things after have happened the same way.... I say I want them, I take action and somehow they work out even if they seem unrealistic.  I pray for it, I ask God and tell him why I want it.... but now I truly believe it and am positive about it.
I also realize that many things I don't even ask for... I some how think that deep in my heart I don't believe I deserve them. 
There was a time that I even believed I was not worthy enough to accept God in my heart.... but a lady from Macomb Michigan who I had never met... called me one day and walked me through the process over the phone....  Now that to me is amazing.... and since then I have been aware he lives in my heart, even though I now know he was always there just waiting for me to acknowledge him.

So YES I believe that I attract what I put my mind into, as long as I am willing to do the work... God will be there to move mountains to make it happen and his universe will conspire to make it work out.  So I will continue this awesome journey of my life but now that I know my positive thoughts do have a purpose .... I will have a closer communication with God about things I want in my life
♥ Fabiola G.

It must be a Mexican thing or something but I do not want my kids to move out LOL...what a way to keep boyfriends away huh? ha ha ha......When my son Adrian said he was moving out I thought I was going to have a heart attack.. but I had to pretend it was all cool and I was okay with it.  As soon as he left the room I burst into tears and worry... omg  how would I know where he is at? what he is doing? is he okay? is he safe? did he eat?  so many questions....  But then I remembered that his dad was his age.. 18... when we got married... can you imagine?? what were we thinking LOL  well I guess times change and no matter how old our kids are they will always be babies to us. I know they will move on with their lives and leave the nest but until then I am going to enjoy them daily even with their messy habits ;)