Sunday, February 10, 2013

Be who you are!! and be proud!


Im a person that changes her mind constantly.. I could love my furniture today and in 2 months I can totally hate it and I do not mind changing it to fit the  the new look I want.

 

I cannot tolerate unhappiness for long periods of time.

 

I love to be happy and feel peace in my heart, and if joy is not present in my life, I make immediate changes... I am never afraid to start from zero anywhere or anytime.

 

I always work only in places that feel good and give me joy.... the minute that changes, I move on.

I am never afraid to let go of any friendship or relationship that jeopardizes my dreams, my happiness, wellbeing or self esteem.

I love to help people and I trust everyone 100%  until they do something to change that.

I avoid people who gossip, put people down or play the victim all the time.. Its contagious!

Good or bad that has been the way I have lived my life so far... I always know what I want and I always work for it.    I am happy to pay the consequences of  any of my actions and I believe I always get what I deserve :)

 

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

What is my Calling??

I really dont know what my calling in life is yet... I figured I would let God guide my heart to find it.  But I heard I will know what it is because I will love doing it and it will not feel like work... so I guess it is: Real Estate and motivating the people around me to be positive.. I think those are the things I love the most besides being a mom as this is the one that brings me the most joy.~Fabiola~

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Sunday, February 3, 2013

I forgive myself


Today I forgive myself for all the things I did or didnt do, for any decision that I made in the past that might have hurt those around me, today I give myself permision to do what makes me happy and gives me peace....and not care what others say or think about it. Today I remind myself that I am enough, that I was created by God and his love lives in my heart. Today I affirm that God will bring to me what he knows I will need and will also take away what he knows I dont need or is not good for the plan he has for me. ~Fabiola~
 

Be clear!

Life is beautiful but can be challenging.. some days more than others, with some people more than with others... But I believe every new situation that is put in front of me has its purpose... sometimes its a reward, sometimes its a lesson, sometimes its a test to see if I did learn the lesson last time or I'm going to make the same mistake again. I do not believe I am in this life to just go with the flow. I must know where I want to get to be able to know the road to take and what to avoid... so its important to be clear on my morals, integrity and beliefs, because only if my feelings are in harmony with those things will I feel peace in my heart and joy in my life. It takes a lot of strength to stay positive and joyful... you are forced to avoid certain situations, places and people and you have to be strong because you will be judged hard as selfish for doing that.... But in reality its the opposite... only if I am joyful and positive can I be of any good to anyone around me. But I do have to admit.... at this point in my life I am only interested in sharing my joy with those that are humble enough to express a need or those who show their love or appreciation to me... the rest I am strong enough to live without. Only my kids are an exception to this.. as they have unconditional love from me and forever. ~Fabiola~